Jon Ludovina, the author of this post, serves as a pastor at our Downtown church. He serves as one of our primary teaching pastors. To find out more about our leadership, visit our Leadership page.
There are many helpful books and resources available to dig deeper as our family works through the What’s Killing Me? campaign. As always with books, sermons and teachings we receive their instruction in light of 1 Thessalonians 5:20-22:
Do not despise prophecies, but test everything; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil.
Paul provides us with four aspects of gospel discernment:
- Practice gospel humility. Don’t scoff at teaching with a critical spirit that thinks you know everything and are smarter than everyone.
- Test everything. Do however take what is being taught and hold it up to the lens of scripture and the gospel.
- Keep the good. Is it Biblically sound? Is Jesus the hero? Does it point to Jesus’ finished and final work for us in the cross? Does it stir your heart’s affections for Jesus?
- Throw out the bad. Does it blatantly contradict scripture? Does it emphasize you as the decisive power for change? Does it encourage moralism instead of gospel dependency?
General help during What’s Killing Me:
- You Can Change by Tim Chester
- Counsel From the Cross by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Denis Johnson
- Death by Love: Letters from the Cross by Mark Driscoll and Gerry Breshears
- The Mortification of Sin by John Owen
- How People Change by Timothy Lane and Paul David Tripp
Week 2: Guilt & Shame
- Shame Interrupted by Edward T. Welch
- Explicit Gospel by Matt Chandler
- Rid of My Disgrace by Justin and Lindsey Holcomb
- (specifically for shame connected to sexual abuse)
- The Bruised Reed by Richard Sibbes
Week 3: Envy & Greed
- The Treasure Principle by Randy Alcorn
- The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment by Jeremiah Burroughs
- Counterfeit Gods by Tim Keller
Week 4: Anger
- Uprooting Anger by Robert D. Jones
- Anger: Escaping the Maze by David Powlison
- A Loving Life: In a World of Broken Relationships by Paul Miler
Week 5: Worry & Anxiety
- Overcoming Fear, Worry and Anxiety by Elyse Fitzpatrick
- Running Scared: Fear, Worry, and the God of Rest by Edward T. Welch
- All Things for Good by Thomas Watson
Week 6 - Apathy
- To Live is Christ: To Die is Gain by Matt Chandler
- Rescuing Ambition by Dave Harvey
- The Biblical View of Self-Esteem, Self-Love, and Self-Image by Jay E. Adams
- Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper
Week 7: Busyness
- Crazy Busy by Kevin DeYoung
- What's Best Next: How the Gospel Transforms the Way You Get Stuff Done by Matt Perman
Week 8: Lust
- Undefiled by Harry Schaumburg
- Sex and the Supremacy of Christ John Piper
- Finally Free by Heath Lambert
- Purity is Possible by Helen Thorne (purity for women)
Week 9: Fear of Man
- When People Are Big and God is Small by Edward T. Welch
- Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- Knowing God by J.I. Packer